I came across a quote on Pinterest that really hit home: “A Listening Ear Can Be A Running Mouth.” It’s a reminder that sometimes people we trust with our stories might share them when they shouldn’t. Let’s talk about why it’s so important to be careful about who we open up to and how to protect ourselves and others when telling our story.
In my mind, this quote boils down to one simple—but powerful—warning: be careful who you trust. When we open our hearts and share our deepest thoughts or vulnerabilities, there’s always a chance that what we say could be shared beyond us, sometimes in ways that hurt or betray our confidence. It’s that uneasy feeling of knowing that too much openness might come back to haunt us. This quote serves as a reminder to think twice before revealing our innermost selves, encouraging us to pause and really consider who deserves to hear our stories—and who is truly capable of keeping them safe.
Many times when we’re going through a difficult period, we feel the need to share our story, to vent and release the weight we carry. Sharing our experiences during times of distress can be incredibly therapeutic, helping us process emotions and find some relief.
But before we open up, it’s important to ask ourselves a few key questions: Can I trust this person? Will they keep what I share confidential? Could sharing this information unintentionally cause harm or hurt to the person I’m confiding in? Being mindful of these questions helps protect both our own well-being and the relationships we value.you have many good friends that you can share your deepest feelings with, friends you can trust.
The moral of the story is to think before you speak.
God Bless You On Your Journey!
KathieyV