I really love this quote by Madam C. J. Walker, and it rings true not just for those of us facing divorce, but for anyone navigating life’s challenges. Divorce can turn your world upside down, leaving you uncertain about the next step. It’s natural to want to withdraw and wait for change to come, but the truth is, opportunities rarely appear on their own. Often, we have to create them ourselves.
I think there are definitely times when it’s right to wait, like waiting for the right moment or until you feel ready. But we can’t always be waiting around. That old saying, “good things come to those who wait,” well, it doesn’t always ring true. Sometimes, we just have to roll up our sleeves and make things happen ourselves.
If you’re looking for a new job, you don’t just sit back and wait for one to come knocking. You check the job listings, get the right training or education, and actively pursue the opportunities you want. If you only waited without taking any steps, chances are that the job would never find you.
I truly believe that real change starts when we take initiative and boldly pursue what we want. As Madam Walker powerfully reminds us, it’s on us to rise up and make opportunities happen—because waiting won’t create the life we dream of.
So here’s my message—to you and to myself: no matter your current situation, stand up, get moving, and take charge of your life. Don’t wait for things to happen; make your life amazing and create the opportunities you deserve.
God Bless You On Your Journey!
KathieyV