Some time ago, I read an intriguing novel called The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cakeby Aimee Bender. The story centers on a girl with a unique gift—the ability to taste the emotions and feelings woven into the food others prepare for her. Through flavors of joy, betrayal, fear, and loneliness, she uncovers hidden truths and gets to understand people in a way few ever can.
It made me wonder, “What would my children, grandchildren, and friends really know about me if they shared this gift and tasted the food I prepare for them?” What flavors would they discover in the layers of my life?
I’m certain they’d encounter some of the more difficult layers—those shaped by pain that many of us carry. They’d taste the emotional sting of abandonment, the sadness of a family torn apart, and even the physical strain of anxiety. If that were all, the meal wouldn’t be pleasant. But thankfully, it’s not the whole story.
They would also sense the beauty that exists alongside the pain, just as I do. They’d feel the strength of my faith in God and know the comfort of walking hand in hand with Him through every challenge.
They’d also taste the joy I feel when I’m with them—the fun, the adventures, the laughter, and the hugs. They’d know my love for music and dancing, how much I enjoy singing and capturing moments through photography. They’d sense how I try to hand over my worries to God and seek out beauty and hope even in life’s toughest times. Most of all, they’d taste the depth of my faith and the love I have for them. They would taste joy.
“For I am the LORD your God, who takes hold of your right hand, who says to you, ‘Don’t be afraid. I’ll help you.”Isaiah 41:13
I hope that when someone shares the food you prepare, even amidst life’s challenges and pain, they also taste the deeper flavors within you—joy, faith, happiness, peace, determination, laughter, love, and contentment.
God Bless You on Your Journey
Kathiey:-)